Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Time Marches On....

I officially have a Kindergartner. And in 11 hours, I will have three 2 year olds. I don't know which one is harder to grasp! At times I feel that Marley should be the one turning two. It seems she has grown up so fast. I will always have a special bond with my first born. I need her and she needs me. There isn't much that we don't do together and unless one of us is at school, you often don't find me without her nearby. If it was up to her, I think we would be together every hour of every day of every year. Give or take a few. I am going to miss her so much when she is gone at school the majority of the day. And I know the babies will too. This week is her first week of summer break and every morning they have run out to her yelling, "Sissy home!" and give her big hugs the minute they see her. Her graduation ceremony was so nice. Her teachers are SO amazing. Not only are they just good, caring, kind people but they are wonderful teachers. They have taught my little girl so much about life and love and of course, learning. She is stronger, wiser and braver because of them. They taught her that it is okay to make mistakes, it is always important to try her best, that she should always believe in herself, when she needs help to simply ask for it, to be kind to her friends, and to start every day with a positive attitude. And that's not even including all of the reading, writing and arithmetic they taught her! I will always hold a special place in my heart for her amazing preschool teachers and hope they realize what special people they all are. Their patience may truly be tested in a year when the triplets start preschool with them!
Speaking of triplets, they are going to be two tomorrow! (I will write a detailed blog about that soon.)Two years ago at this time, I was sitting here in denial labor and thinking I wasn't quite ready for them to make their grand arrival. Obviously they didn't listen. And that was just the beginning of that! They have continuously amazed me since the day they were born. They are some sweet, loving, smart and wild little crazies. But they are my crazies and I am thankful every day.

Marley and her cousins

Mrs. Holly giving the graduate her diploma
So darn proud of herself!
Marley & Mimi
Still itty-bitties!
Always smiling
Jack & Marissa
I remember how Makayla (in very back) wrapped her arm around her brother all by herself and snuggled up as close as she could. Melted my heart

Marley & Bre :)








 



Thursday, May 9, 2013

Student Teaching Day 1

I got to sit in my first classroom today for about four hours. It was a lot of fun and now I am REALLY excited to finish my program so I can start! And lucky me got to sit in the classroom of these two handsome fellas....
 
My friend (and Marley's old daycare teacher) Claire stayed with the babies until I got home and they all had lots of fun blowing bubbles and playing together. They really enjoy interacting with different people now. They all hugged her bye when it was time for her to leave but I have another day scheduled at the school for next week so it won't be long until they can play again.
 
I just put Marley to bed for the last time as a Preschooler. She graduates tomorrow!! I can't believe it. How bittersweet.  My little girl is growing up...

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Birthday Time....And a New Look!

Today is Mike's birthday. I would say the person in the house most excited about this is Marley. She knows that the order goes daddy's birthday, the babies' birthday, her cousin's birthday and then her birthday! So, each birthday that can get checked off the list and therefore bringing hers closer causes a whole bunch of 4 year old excitement. We are working on a tight budget these days with one income for a family of six and pretty much anything that can break seems to have broken in the past 2 weeks, so we kept it a nice, low-key fun time at home. Mike had to work so while the babies napped today, Marley and I made him his favorite kind of cake as well as a batch of brownies. Not good for our diets, but oh so delicious! We all played out back for about an hour after he got home from work and then came inside for baths and just played inside until bedtime. Marley and I went to pick up my mom this evening so she could come over and see everyone and we sent her home with some desserts for later. Happy birthday to Mike!!

I am working on a new look for my blog. It is turning out to be more of a pain than anything, but hopefully by time I am done it will be worth it. So, if you are on the page and it looks a mess, please just bear with me until I finish.

Tomorrow is my first day of field experience and I am so excited for it so off to bed for me....

Brownies and cake! Yum!! And yes, those are '33' candles ;)

Makayla sat on Mimi the entire time she was here

Helping dad open his present
My little baker

Showing off his Yankees doormat and steering wheel cover. Can't say I will mind wiping my dirty shoes on that mat!

 

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

We Are Still Here!!

Life has been way too busy lately and blogging has not been a top priority. A few weeks ago I went to update everyone and the website kept giving me issues, but now it seems to be working fine. I am not even sure where to begin. There's been great things happening around here and not so great things. Let's start with the positive!

- Marley is graduating preschool. THIS Friday!
- The triplets will be 2 NEXT WEEK!
- I am back in school to be a teacher! And will be certified by THIS September.
- Mike has lost 80 pounds. Yes, that is 8 0.
- Marley & I were in a wedding this past weekend.
- We had a quick visit from Mike's brother & his wife recently

I am in disbelief that my little Marley will be turning 5 in August and a couple weeks after that she will be starting Kindergarten. It is just amazing what a sweet and loving little girl she is. She is doing so good in gymnastics, t-ball and swimming and hopefully will get to go to some summer camps in the upcoming months. She loves her babies more than I could have ever imagined and I am so proud of her. She is an awesome little kid!!

The triplets are almost 2!!! In 9 short days, they will officially hit the "Terrific Twos." They are doing great. The girls talk my ears off and are so dang smart. You can have actual conversations about things with them. Such as this recent one- Me: "Good morning girls. How are you this morning?" Makayla- "Good. I'm uppppp." Me- "I see that. Who made this mess in the living room?" Makayla- "Not me. It was Jack Jack." Me- "You didn't do any of it?" Makayla- "No. Just Jack Jack." It is amazing how quick they pick up on things and all that they know. I will give more detailed updates on their 2 year post. Jack is doing great too. He is not quite as developed in the speech department as his sisters, but he communicates in his own way. He is still a little ham and always so happy. He's a great brother to his three sisters. He's shown he can be very protective, very caring and very silly with them. They have a great bond and I have really enjoyed the age they are all at lately.

I decided to pursue a dream I have always had and am back in school to become a teacher. If all goes as planned, which so far it is with A's in my first two classes, I will be done by September. I hope to teach Kindergarten, 1st or 2nd grade. I will be certified to teach thru 6th though and will take what I can get!

Mike has still been going strong at eating good and exercising and is now down 80 pounds!! So proud of him. He has done really good and needs a new wardrobe. Maybe he should replace those Yankee shirts with Rays shirts!

This past weekend Marley and I were in a very good friend's wedding. It was so much fun and Marley rocked it out as a Flower Girl. I can't even count how many people came up to us to tell us how beautiful she is and what a good job she did. Girlfriend loved all of the pampering she received and is already asking to go back to get her nails done.

Mike's older brother and his wife came to visit us in March. It was a short visit, but we all had a lot of fun. The kids loved playing with them and we hope they come back really soon!

So, that is the big, good stuff quickly. Now the not-so-good stuff. Many of you know my mom and know what a wonderful person she is. My entire life, anytime I have met someone who knows my mom, they talk about how great she is. Or how she is always smiling. Or how she is just so sweet. Roughly 2 months ago, she was diagnosed with Stage 3 Breast Cancer. Words cannot describe the shock and sadness we felt when we found out. Life just isn't fair sometimes. She has already undergone two surgeries and is about to begin several months of chemotherapy, radiation and hormone replacement therapy. It really doesn't make sense sometimes, but I guess all we can do is hold on and keep moving forward. She's got 6 grandbabies who aren't slowing down for some stupid thing called cancer and I hope soon that this is all just a bad memory.

So, that is our life in the past couple months in a nutshell. I know it's been awhile and I rushed thru this, but I will be more diligent now :)

Playing in rain puddles at the front door

Marley loving on Makayla

My four loves

Jacqui & Justin's wedding

The beautiful bride....almost two years ago with Marissa!

Jack enjoying the warm weather

Gymnast girl doin' her thing

Oh I love these little faces

Before my mom's first surgery. Even smiling then!

It's gotta be fun to have built in playmates

They are all so silly
Uncle Shane & Jack

Some girl time with Aunt Jenn

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

20 month update

Another two months has passed since I last updated but between Christmas, New Years, Preschool, gymnastics, TONS of birthday parties and oh yeah- four kids, we've been pretty busy! Everyone is doing really great and keeping life interesting all the time. Marley has been doing really good in school and had a cute Christmas program last month which she performed really well in. I love seeing all of the new things she learns each week and working on different projects with her. She has been invited to more birthday parties in the past/upcoming months than I can count. Seriously, she may have set a Guiness World Record. She has also been doing really good in gymnastics and learns new skills all of the time. She LOVES it and would go every single day if I let her. She will be starting T-ball again in March as she asked to do it again because she had so much fun last year. She is still such a good big sister to the babies and they all really enjoy playing together and just hanging out. They get so excited when they see her after school and I don't think they are going to like when she is in Kindergarten and gone several more hours during the day.
Marley with Santa
The babies (though at 20 months I am not sure how much longer I can refer to them this way) are also doing great. They keep me busy and tired, but it's also really fun and rewarding. Jack is still the clown of the group. That boy will do anything to get a laugh. He has the best personality ever. He is very caring and loving of his sisters- all three of them! In the morning he will get everyone's breakfast and milk and pass it out to them. He always gives his sisters their cups first and then gets his. He is still the follower of the group and does everything Marley or the little girls do. He is also still the worst about stealing toys from others and has had to visit the corner quite a few times because of this. He is relentless and if you don't physically stop him, he just doesn't give up. He has learned- from his sisters- how to throw fits and cross his arms at you, though he is usually smiling or laughing during it so it's not nearly as effective when he does it. He is really tall and thin, about 35 inches and 24 pounds, and finding clothes that fit him is pretty tough. He only has 5 teeth. He says several words with his favorite being "Uhoh" which is pretty fitting being he has usually done something deserving of it. He has pretty scrawny little arms but he is strong. He can hang from a bar and get himself swinging and even hang on by one arm very easily. He does not dress himself but he sure does know how to undress himself. All three of them can strip down, including diaper, in record time. And they all LOVE to be naked. They often still wear onesies so that I know they aren't having a party in their cribs during nap time and throwing clothes and diapers at each other. He loves riding in the car, running outside, going down slides, taking baths, reading books, eating snacks more than meals, doing flips like Marley and giving big neck hugs.
My little cowboy
Marissa has become quite the wild one. Physically, she is fearless and will try anything. At the birthday parties with bigger kids she is not one bit scared to be bouncing with them in the bounce houses and getting knocked off her feet or bounced on. She just gets up and keeps at it. She has always tried to do anything Marley did and she really would love to be a much bigger girl already. She is very inquisitive, always asking me what things are. She is bright and pretty verbal and has no problem letting someone know when she isn't happy. She squeals with delight very loudly and has the "saddest" cry of the bunch. She jumps off of two feet really well and has stood and jumped off the couch many times before we could stop her. She understands everything I tell her and answers questions with a yes or no. She is capable of getting herself completely dressed on her own including shoes. She likes having her hair done and often brings me a rubberband and sits on my lap without being asked. Marley knows that Marissa wants to be a big girl and when they are off playing together and think I am not listening, I hear Marley tell her, "Ok, sis me and you are teenagers." Yikes!! Marissa's favorite thing to say is either "What's that?" or "Ewww!" She says many letters of the alphabet which is something we've been working on a lot lately. She is still fairly petite weighing about 21 pounds and around 32 inches. She has a mouth full of teeth and didn't fuss in the least when any of them came in. She loves playing outside, jumping, reading books, doing anything Marley does, hugging, being tickled, taking baths, doing flips and anything electronic.
Enjoying cake at a birthday party
Makayla is my little diva. The girl is either extremely happy or extremely not happy. She can give looks that I don't even think I can. She is smart and opinionated and loud and sweet. She's very stubborn about certain things. If I hand her a snack that's in a bag (example- string cheese or goldfish) she does not want the bag to be opened for her when you give it to her. If it is, she refuses to take it. She wants to try to open it herself and after 10 minutes of trying, if she can't get it, then she will bring it to you to open. She likes to be the one to carry a plate of snacks out for everyone and doesn't think she needs help. She is also capable of getting herself completely dressed and usually chooses her pink cowgirl boots to finish off her outfits. She understands everything I tell her and answers questions with a yes or no as well. She also says many letters of the alphabet. She is the leader of the pack and the one to decide when they are hungry, thirsty, want outside, etc. Her favorite word to say is, "Mine!" and she usually does it with a cross of the arms for emphasis as well. She loves being outside and gets very upset if the weather is bad and we can't go out. The other day it was raining outside and she stood there kicking the panel to the screen room yelling at the rain for the longest time. She is the snuggler of the group and loves to rest her little head on your shoulder. If we are sitting together, she will often put her hand in mine or in whichever of her siblings is sitting next to her. She can go from very happy to very mad, or the opposite, in the blink of an eye. She is very close to her sister in size, weighing about 2 ounces less than her and maybe 1/4 of an inch shorter. She also has a mouth full of teeth and wasn't bothered a bit by them coming in. She loves playing outside, snuggling, taking baths, eathing snacks, playing with Marley, Barbies, reading books, and brushing her hair.
Together they are either best friends who are running around the house holding hands and hugging and kissing each other or the total opposite and fighting over toys and being jealous of who sits on my lap. They are very close and do not like being separated from each other. I can't wait to continue to watch them learn and grow and watch the special bond all four of them have with each other.
                                                                      
One last thing I would like to add is an update on Mike. He has been working very hard the past few months with dieting and exercise and has lost 50 pounds!! He has not quite reached his personal goal so he is still going at it, but he has done so well that I felt it was deserving of being mentioned. Parents of any kids, but especially ones with multiples, are often overlooked/overshadowed and this is something that definitely deserves some recognition! :)

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

18 Month Checkups...

The babies just had their 18 month checkup. I cannot believe I am writing that! Where has the past year and a half gone? At their 15 month appointment Marley also had her 4 year visit, so I scheduled them over two days and took two kids each time. They scheduled these visits over two days as well, but it is not fun going to the doctor two days in a row so their two year appointments will all be on the same day. Might as well get it all done at once right?? The visits went good, Jack went one day and the little girls went the next. Big sis accompanied both visits for "moral support." Jack did well at his visit, but he was definitely missing his sisters (who threw huge tantrums when they realized they were getting left behind.) He cried thru most of his appointment though not for shots. How strange. Marissa did the best and explored while Makayla was getting checked. She cried a little during some of her checkup,but by the end she was talking to the doctor and pointing out pictures to him. Makayla had me hold her the entire time, which was not easy to do while always trying to hold Marissa down for shots. She cried during all her measurement checks as well as any other time the doctor was doing anything to her. The good news is that they are all done shots until they are 4 or 5! So, here are their weights and lengths....

                                                                             Jack: 22 pounds, 34 inches (tall & skinny)
                                                                       Marissa: 21 pounds, 31.5 inches (petite)
                                                                      Makayla: 20 pounds, 31.5 inches (petite)

Jack is the 93rd percentile in length and 33rd in weight, Marissa is 30th and 30th and Makayla is 30th in length and 20th in weight. Considering they started off below the first percentile, and they were born 6 weeks earlier than the other babies they are being averaged against, I can't complain. They are growing! Developmentally they are doing awesome. The doctor was very impressed by all they do and say and is not worried about anything at this time. Marley was great as usual, telling them it'd be over soon and "it really isn't that bad, it'll just burn for a second." She holds their hands when it's their turn and tells them the doctor is a really nice man. That girl is gonna rock as a mama one day (in 25 years.) So, that's the 18 month update. Everyone is doing great and I couldn't ask for much more!


Big sis

Marissa having fun at the doctor

Makayla not impressed

Excited
Jack waiting

Here comes the doctor guys

 

Makayla was worn out

Thursday, November 1, 2012

"Halloweening" Boucher Style

Halloween is always a lot of fun around here....especially now with four little ones. This year was no exception. I spent all morning at Marley's school helping out with their preschool fall festival and then all of the kids (and parents) went to a local nursing home to sing songs and brighten up some days. I mean, there isn't much in life that's cuter than 30 four and five year olds shouting singing all of the songs they have learned in school so far. Then Halloween evening we took all the kids, and a lot of friends, out to trick or treat. Most of the usual faces came over as well as a few new ones. The older kids (Marley & her friends) had SO much fun. It was so cute watching them all run house to house and yell "Trick or Treat" and "Thank You!" and quickly check out their surprises before running to the next house. The babies had some friends over too and though they didn't get to go to every door, they all still seemed to have a lot of fun. I pulled the babies around in their wagon and they did great....until we were fairly far away from home. We had stopped at a rather scary house and Marissa looked up at it and started crying. Of course that started a chain reaction and all of the babies were scared and crying and loud. At one point, I was carrying all three babies at the same time to keep them happy, though my arms and back didn't take kindly to this. I ended up taking a shorter way home, and luckily another friend joined me to carry Jack, and the rest of the crew kindly kept their eye on Marley so she could stay out a while longer with her friends. They all came back hungry, tired and thirsty but luckily we had pizza and drinks waiting on everyone as well as some Monster Cake. All in all, it was a very fun year for all of us and I can't wait to do it again next year!


My crew ready to get some candy!

Keanu & Marley

Kaden holding Makayla

Marley playing at her preschool festival

Breana & Marley having fun

Bobbing for apples

Strawberry Shortcake & Izzy going fishing
Singing at the nursing home

Art projects

 

My sweet Izzy

Happy Halloween :)

Bam Bam & Pebbles (times two!)

My three little loves

Picture time is always fun with Jack

Makayla picking acorns

Race to the end of the driveway!

Jack's outta here!

There's a puppy loose in my yard! :)